Appreciate your strengths and work on your weakness.


"I'm not able to do that."


"I could never do that."

"I wish I am talented like that."

"I wish I could be like that."

"I hate that I _______."

The list goes on and on if you let it.


We are so critical in our being sometimes that it is amazing that we even have time to find someone to criticize us. We live in a world now more than ever with social media that it's natural for us to find ourselves comparing than simply admiring. I don't care how good you have it, there is someone out there showing off all you wish you could do and be. And that is okay. We are humans so it is a natural thing to have those moments, but it is not okay to dwell on it to the point that is all you do to the point you are hurting yourself rather than embracing your uniqueness. We are all different so no one is the same, so we all lack somewhere, but in the fictitious world created in the media world somehow is easy to finds ways to forget the qualities we do have.


We all just focus too much on what we are not good at or what we lack, we will insanely forget the beauty we possess and what makes us different. Let's remember, your talents are so innate with you naturally it can be difficult for you to even identify it at times. For what comes so easy for you, maybe a huge struggle for someone else. That mindset somehow convince us is just another thing, is easily brushed off and we forget to appreciate it, until someone else may start to ask you for help in that area. Another reason is that you may not even try to improve your talents and understand that it can grow to something extraordinary unless we use that ability if and when we discover our passion. And let's not forget that many people may make things so easy and confuses you on the struggles, practices, and many failures you must encounter that is NOT shown.